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Self Marriage

Self Marriage is a profound ritual and rite of passage where we step back into the most important relationship we will ever have in this life. With that human in the mirror. With that soul in your eyes. With you.

 

It's a return to wholeness. To holiness. To bring the divine union into our being so that we be engage with the world from a place of  deep love and responsibility of self.

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With my work, I marry a lot of people and it's palpable that not everyone is committed to their Inner God. They are ready to commit to the other Outer God, the Other, the Lover, but not everyone has that big place inside of them that is unshakeable.

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When we do the ritual of Self Marriage, we invite ourselves to the table. A L L  O F  U S. And we say to Her, ALL OF YOU IS WELCOME HERE and you don't need something outside of you to get you because

 

I G O T Y O U. period.

 

And we weave our threads into holiness.

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We engage in self leadership, self validation and take self responsibility.

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and through this art, we create an unshakeable inner relationship that ultimately makes EVERY RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE BETTER.

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Week 1: 

Intro to Hieros Gamos

This week we cover a two hour session with what the heck is the Hieros Gamos? 

Week 2 

The Underworld: Our Shadow Selves

We start mirror work in week 2, where we re-visit the versions of us that we have disowned. We go through the inner child, the inner teenager, the maiden and the mother. We work through the Addict, the Priestess, the Whore.

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Week 3

The Upperworld: The Golden Right to Claim

How can we claim what is rightfully ours without looking 'selfish'? How can we honour our path if it means not people pleasing all of the others in our life? 

Week 4:

The Together-time

We do a 5 hour online workhop or in-person workshop. 

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The ceremony itself is a commitment to your inner anima + animus. 

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